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Already living together? How British churches marry cohabiting couples

By the fornication.info editorial teamTopic sheet · full article in preparation3 sources
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In short

Yes. Living together is no bar to a church wedding in the UK. ONS data on marriages in England and Wales in 2021 and 2022 show that 83.7% of couples marrying in a religious ceremony had cohabited first. Since 2009 the Church of England has also offered a combined marriage and baptism service for couples who already have children.

What the full article will cover

  1. Do UK churches require couples to live apart before marrying?
  2. What do the statistics say about cohabitation before church weddings?
  3. What is the Church of England's marriage and baptism service?
  4. How do Catholic and Free Churches approach cohabiting couples?
  5. What about banns and parish residence rules?

Frequently asked questions

  • Will the vicar ask whether we live together?
  • Can we marry in church if we already have children?
  • Do Catholic priests marry couples who live together?
  • Do we need to be baptised to marry in a Church of England church?

Sources

  1. anglicanjournal.com — https://anglicanjournal.com/church-of-england-to-offer-combined-marriage-and-baptism-8622/
  2. ons.gov.uk — https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/birthsdeathsandmarriages/marriagecohabitationandcivilpartnerships/bulletins/marriagesinenglandandwalesprovisional/2021and2022
  3. churchofengland.org — https://www.churchofengland.org/node/391/printable/print

General information, not legal or religious advice.

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